Some people revere Lord Shiva with deep faith yet approach Him mainly as the giver of worldly boons—health, success, position, wealth. There is no harm in seeking help; but limiting Shiva to wish-fulfilment alone misses His highest grace: liberation (moksha).
Shiva is the compassionate destroyer of bondage; His worship is meant to free us from inner cravings and fear, not to inflate them.
When a devotee’s mind is restless, only ritual and bargaining arise: “Give me this, take away that.”
But the fruit of such devotion is also restless and short-lived. The wise seek refuge in Shiva for purity, peace and self-knowledge.
Surrender at His feet removes sin, lightens the burden of past actions and gives the strength to walk the straight path even amidst worldly struggles.
Shiva’s name is pure, auspicious and liberating. Remembering the name with faith brings clarity and compassion. If one has little learning or resources, let them hold to the name and simple worship; even this becomes a boat across suffering when done with sincerity.
Ask yourself: do you worship only in times of fear and calamity—and forget as soon as desires are fulfilled?
Such devotion remains small. True devotion seeks the Highest Good (parama shreyas) beyond mere comfort and gain. It prays not only for prosperity but for discrimination (viveka), detachment (vairagya), and the courage to abandon unworthy habits.