As long as a person feels that practice is foreign to them, their nature does not readily turn towards it. Like a guest at a saint’s dwelling who has not yet found their place, the mind keeps looking elsewhere. The first mark of success is naturalness: when the moment for practice arrives and the heart moves to it without strain or resistance.
If, at the time of sitting, the mind runs outside and refuses to remain with the chosen discipline, understand that either the method does not suit your present capacity, or your way of holding it lacks steadiness. Both need honest reflection.
Ask plainly: “Is my chosen practice right for my temperament? Am I attempting more than my current ability?” The wise revise their routine rather than forcing the mind. Fitness (adhikāra) matters. A practice that matches your nature becomes light, steady and fruitful.
Those who practice sincerely every day taste inner quietness. They do not depend on external thrills for motivation. Under the grace of the Great Ones, practice ripens; even the subtle pride of being a practitioner dissolves, and the heart does not feel burdened by effort or by rule.
Sādhanā is not divided into small or big, showy or plain. What matters is love for it and the strength to keep it up. Adopt a routine that you can honour without fail. Keep it within your means and free from vanity. This is discipline that brings freedom, not stiffness that brings fatigue.
When one receives the compassion of the great souls, practice becomes simple and sweet. Even so, a true practitioner never grows arrogant about the path and never looks down upon another’s method. Rule exists to steady the mind, not to harden the heart.
Fix a definite resolve. For example: “I will rise at a set hour before dawn and sit for practice; I will remember the Lord with faith.” Decide a practical time and keep it. When the mind knows there is a promise to keep, it gathers itself and the day begins well.
Hold to this decision steadily. What is done every day, even in small measure, becomes a habit; and what becomes a habit becomes a nature. From nature, results arise of themselves—calmness increases, distraction lessens, and one-pointedness grows.
Do not let practice become dull or mechanical. Keep freshness—yet without nervous excitement. New zeal and new attention should arise from within, not from comparison or display. Joy comes from truthfulness and regularity, not from loud claims about experiences.
Those who truly receive inner benefit become naturally humble. They feel no urge to boast about visions or powers; they feel more inclined to silence, service and compassion. This inward softening is itself a sure sign of advancement.
Success in practice is seen as serenity in the mind, purity in motives, truth in speech, compassion in action, and courage to drop what is unworthy. Restlessness fades, stability increases, and the practitioner becomes fit to face life’s changes evenly.
Therefore, do not measure progress by length of sitting or by unusual experiences. Measure it by the steadiness of conscience, the reduction of anger and greed, the growth of kindness and clarity. This measure never deceives.